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1991425/08/2007

He married her then he found out that her name was false

Question: 104588

I got married one year ago and I fulfilled all the conditions
of marriage that I was aware of, such as the agreement of the
woman’s guardian, witnesses, the mahr (dowry) and so on.
Before we got married she told me that her full name was “A M
D”, as it appeared on her official papers. One year later I
found out that her name is “A S Y” and that she changed the
names of her father and grandfather to names that have nothing
to do with the originals so that it would be easier for her to
enter the Kingdom, and she made me use her false name for one
year, and she did not tell me the truth. It should be noted
that she always lies, even about the most trivial matters. Is
this marriage contract invalid? Please note that I never heard
her true name even from her guardian when the marriage contract
was done.

Praise be to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon the Messenger of Allah and his family.

Firstly: 

It is not one of the essential
parts or conditions of marriage that correct names be used;
rather it is sufficient to specify the woman to whom marriage
is proposed and with whom the marriage contract is done. If
there is some error in the name or a false name is given,
that does not affect the validity of the
marriage. 

It says in al-Sharh
al-Mumti‘ by Shaykh Ibn ‘Uthaymeen (49, 48, 12), in a
discussion on the conditions of marriage: 

1.

Specifying the partners: because
the marriage contract has to do specifically with them, the
husband and wife. It is a serious matter on which rulings on
lineage, inheritance and rights depend. Hence it is essential
to specify who the partners are. It is not acceptable to say
“I give my daughter in marriage to one of your sons” or “I
give my daughter in marriage to one of these two men: of “I
give my daughter in marriage to a student in the college.”
Rather it is essential to be specific. And it is also
essential to be specific with regard to the wife, and say
(for example): “I give you my daughter in
marriage.” 

There are several ways of
specifying: 

(i)               
By
pointing and saying “I give this daughter of mine to you in
marriage,” and (the groom) says, “I accept.”

(ii)             
By
naming her, such as saying “I give my daughter Faatimah to
you in marriage,” and he has no other daughter by this
name.

(iii)           
By
mentioning her with some distinguishing characteristic, such
as saying, “My daughter who completed grade ten this year” or
“My tall/short/fair/dark/blind daughter” and so
on

(iv)           
By
mentioning some real fact, such as saying “I give my daughter
to you in marriage,” when he has no other
daughter. 

End quote. 

So in terms of validity, the
marriage is valid. 

But what this woman did is
something that is haraam and there is no difference of
scholarly opinion with regard to that. For a Muslim to
attribute himself to someone other than his father is
something that the scholars regard as a major sin, because of
the stern warnings that are narrated concerning it. This has
been discussed previously in the answers to questions no.
638 and 1942

What she has to do is repent
from that action of hers and correct her name. She should
fear Allah when speaking and not speak anything but the
truth, for speech may lead to Paradise or to Hell. The Muslim
has to strive when speaking to seek the truth, justice,
honesty and fairness. 

And Allah knows
best.

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