Du`a before sex
Among the manners prescribed by the Shari’ah is that the Muslim should say when he commences intercourse with his wife :
"In the Name of Allah, Oh Allah, shield us from Satan and keep him away from us and from what You [may] bestow upon us (i.e. children)" Narrated by Al-Bukhari, Fath ul-Bari No. 138)
Transliteration of du`a before sex
"Bismillah, Allahumma jannibnash-shaytan wa jannib-ash-shaytana ma razaqtana"
This opening invocation is useful in that if Allah blesses the husband and the wife with a child, this child will not be harmed by Satan.
As for what is to be said by the husband when consummating the marriage with his wife, please see this answer:
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And Allah knows best.