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He is suffering because of his Muslim colleagues’ laziness in studying; should he work with non-Muslims?

Question: 46453

I am a student in a school in the west. Praise be to Allaah I spend most of my time with Muslims, but I am suffering because of my own laziness and the laziness of the Muslims here. Hence I have started to prefer working with non-Muslims here in the field of study only. Is that regarded as taking the kuffaar as close friends? What are the conditions of working with them in this case?.

Praise be to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon the Messenger of Allah and his family.

Among the most important influences on a person’s attitude
and nature, and also on his religious commitment, is the atmosphere
surrounding him, including the people with whom he interacts, the place
where he lives and the places he frequents. These all affect a person’s
feelings and form the values in which he believes; his attitude will be
coloured by the various influences around him. The most dangerous situation
is when this process happens without his realizing it, or paying attention
to it. Hence they say that (human) nature is a thief, it takes from what is
around it by stealth, without a person realizing. 

Because of what we have mentioned above, Islam has defined
the atmosphere in which a person should strive to live, by choosing good
friends and living in a Muslim environment. It also warns against settling
among the mushrikeen or taking them as friends. [See the questions on
al-Wala’ wa’l-Bara’ (Loyalty and friendship vs. disavowal and enmity) in the
section on ‘Aqeedah (basic tenets of faith)]. See also questions no.
38284,
26118 and
23325

This applies when a person is able to do that and has some
control over the situation at times of ease. But in cases of necessity when
a person has no other choice and has no control over the matter, then we
should speak about doing whatever he can in his best interests, and warding
off whatever he can of harm. See question no.
13363

With regard to your question: before you think about working
with non-Muslims, why don’t you think about how to ward off laziness from
yourself and your Muslim brothers? 

Why don’t you try – with your brothers – to give a good
impression of what a Muslim should be – serious and hardworking? 

What I fear is that this conduct will reinforce the image of
laziness, neglect and weakness that is often presented of Muslims. By
Allaah, this is an old problem of which ‘Umar (may Allaah be pleased with
him) complained when he said: “O Allaah, to You do I complain of the
strength of the evildoer and the incapability of the trustworthy one.” See
question no. 43270

But if it is the matter of choosing between working hard with
the kuffaar or sleeping among the Muslims, then you should work and strive
hard, and strive hard to adhere to your religion and morals which you have
learned from your religion; be more keen in protecting your religious
commitment than you would be in protecting your wealth and your life. And
pay attention to the following: 

1-    
Do not take women as study
companions, because you know about their attitudes and you know what will
result from keeping company with them and mixing with them. Moreover you
know that such relationships are forbidden in Islam.

2-    
Try to spend as little time as
possible among them.

3-    
Limit these relationships to
that which is required for work and study.

4-    
Try to give a good impression
of Muslims and their religion and attitude. Link everything good in you to
what your religion enjoins upon you.

5-    
Remember that your adherence to your religion is something that will make others respect you. Who knows? Perhaps some of them will be influenced by you and if Allaah guides a single man by means of you, that will be better for you than this world and everything in it. 

And Allaah is the Source of strength.

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