Ruling on saying “you don’t deserve this” to one who is sick
Question: 12867
Sometimes when people visit a person who is sick, they say to him, “you don’t deserve this”. Or when they hear that a certain person is sick, they say, “By Allaah, he doesn’t deserve that. We hope that you can tell us whether it is permissible to say this or not?
Praise be to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon the Messenger of Allah and his family.
It is not permissible to
say this, because it is like objecting to Allaah, may He be exalted. He
knows best about the situation of His slaves, and He is Most Wise in what
He decrees for them of health and sickness, richness and poverty, and so
on.
What is prescribed is to
say, “May Allaah grant him good health and heal him,” and similar good
phrases.
May Allaah help all the
Muslims to understand their religion and adhere to it steadfastly, for He
is the Best to be asked.
Source:
Majmoo’ Fataawaa wa Maqaalaat Mutanawwi’ah li Samaahat al-Shaykh al-‘Allaamah ‘Abd al-‘Azeez ibn ‘Abd-Allaah ibn Baaz (may Allaah have mercy on him), vol. 8, p. 421
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