Insinuating Whispers About Purity

Question: 41027

Many thanks to you for helping people to understand Islam as it was enjoined by Allah. I am suffering with the problem of washing a great deal when I do wudu, such that I need more than two hours to relieve myself and do wudu, which is a waste of time and effort and is driving me crazy. I even went to a psychiatrist about this problem. If I sit in a place where someone else has been, I have to brush all my clothes until I feel pure and ready to pray. I am suffering a great deal with this problem. I hope that you can answer me and tell me the name of a book I can read or a du’a I can recite to rid myself of this problem.

Praise be to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon the Messenger of Allah and his family.

We ask Almighty Allah, by His
beautiful names and sublime attributes, to heal you and rid you of what you
are experiencing. It should be noted that this is a kind of psychological
disease that is known as Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, which refers to
thoughts that dominate a person in some ways and persist with him even
though he knows that they are mistaken and are not correct. This may be
dealt with in several ways:

1 – Thinking positively of
Allah, making a great deal of du’a (supplication), and beseeching Allah to
heal you from this waswas (insinuating whispers from Shaytan).

2 – Getting used to ignoring
these waswas and not paying any attention to them. You can put a suitable
amount of water in a vessel, and do not make wudu directly from the tap
anymore; make yourself do wudu from this vessel only. Tell yourself that
there is no other water available except what is in this vessel, and make do
with what it contains. Do not wash any part of the body more than three
times. Even if the Shaytan tells you that your wudu is not valid, this is
just a whisper from the Shaytan and does not mean anything.

3 – The same applies to brushing
your clothes after sitting in a place where someone else has sat. You should
ignore this waswas and force yourself not to brush your clothes. You should
train yourself in this manner no matter what the waswas is.

4 – You should remember the
fiqhi (jurisprudential) principle which is that what is certain cannot be
altered by something doubtful. If you are certain of something, you should
not pay attention to any doubts after that. If you have done something then
do not pay attention to any doubts that come along after doing it. If you
have washed your hand, then do not pay any attention to doubts that come,
even fleeting doubts, suggesting that you have not washed your hand, as al-Shaykh
Ibn ‘Uthaymeen (may Allah have mercy on him) said:

Doubts after doing something do
not matter, otherwise doubts will increase.

You should not pay any attention
to doubts that come after completing an act of worship, and even if a man
has a lot of doubts, he should not pay any attention to them.

5 – There is nothing wrong with
consulting a trustworthy psychiatrist who can prescribe some useful
treatment for you.

6 – Please see questions no.

10160 and

11449.

For more information, please
read Ighathat al-Lahfan by Ibn al-Qayyim and Talbees Iblees by Ibn al-Jawzi,
which both discuss how the Shaytan toys with people by means of waswas, and
how one may remedy that.

We ask Allah to
set your affairs and those of all the Muslims straight.

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