Good deeds appear in the form of a man in the grave

What is narrated in the saheeh Sunnah about one’s good deeds
taking a physical form and appearing in the form of a handsome man in the
grave, including the deed of reciting the Holy Qur’aan, is as follows: 

1-

It was narrated from al-Bara’ ibn ‘Aazib (may Allaah be
pleased with him) that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be
upon him) said: 

“When the believing slave is about to depart this world and
enter the Hereafter, there come down to him from heaven angels with white
faces like the sun, and they sit around him as far as the eye can see. They
bring with them shrouds from Paradise and perfumes from Paradise…” until he
said, describing the state of the believer in the grave:  

“Then a voice calls out from heaven, ‘My slave has spoken the
truth, so prepare for him a bed from Paradise and clothe him from Paradise,
and open for him a gate to Paradise.’ Then there comes to him some of its
fragrance, and his grave is made wide, as far as he can see. Then there
comes to him a man with a handsome face and handsome clothes, and a good
fragrance, who says, ‘Receive the glad tidings that will bring you joy this
day.’ He says, ‘Who are you? Your face is a face which brings glad tidings.’
He says, ‘I am your righteous deeds.’ He says, ‘O Lord, hasten the Hour
so that I may return to my family and my wealth.’”

Narrated by Ahmad (4/362); classed
as saheeh by al-Albaani in Ahkaam al-Janaa’iz (156). 

2-

It was narrated that Buraydah (may
Allaah be pleased with him) said: I heard the Prophet (peace and
blessings of Allaah be upon him) say: 

“The Qur’aan will meet its
companion on the Day of Resurrection when his grave is opened for him, in
the form of a pale man. It will say to him, ‘Do you recognize me?’ He will
say: ‘I do not recognize you.’ It will say: ‘I am your companion the
Qur’aan, who kept you thirsty on hot days and kept you awake at night. Every
merchant benefits from his business and today you will benefit from your
good deeds.’ He will be given dominion in his right hand and eternity in his
left, and there will be placed on his head a crown of dignity, and his
parents will be clothed with priceless garments the like of which have never
been seen in this world. They will say: ‘Why have we been clothed with
this?’ It will be said: ‘Because your son used to recite Qur’aan.’ Then it
will be said to him: ‘Recite and ascend in the degrees of Paradise,’ and he
will continue to ascend so long as he recites, either at a fast pace or a
slow pace
.”                                                                                               

Narrated by Ahmad in al-Musnad
(394) and Ibn Maajah in al-Sunan (3781); classed as hasan by
al-Busayri in al-Zawaa’id and by al-Albaani in al-Silsilah
al-Saheehah (2829). 

Al-Suyooti said in his commentary
on the hadeeth (2/1242): 

“In the form of a pale man”.
Al-Suyooti said: This is the one whose colour has changed. It is as if he
comes in this form so as to resemble his companion in this world, or to draw
attention to the fact that just as his colour changed in this world because
of staying up at night to read Qur’aan, the Qur’aan will appear in a similar
form because of its striving on the Day of Resurrection until its companion
attains the ultimate goal in the Hereafter. End quote. 

I have not found anything in the
saheeh Sunnah to suggest that a man’s righteous deeds will appear in the
form of a man in the grave except in these two hadeeths. 

As for the hadeeth which you
quoted, it is not narrated in any of the reliable books of Sunnah, and we
have not found it with any isnaad, saheeh (sound) or da’eef (weak). Rather
it is something that appears in some chat rooms or on some sites with no
proof. Perhaps some ignorant person wrote it himself then attributed it to
the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him), to encourage
the people to respect the Qur’aan and pay attention to it, but these people
do not know that telling lies about the Prophet (peace and blessings of
Allaah be upon him) is one of the worst of sins that doom a person to the
Fire of Hell, and the good intention does not remove the burden of sin for
those who tell lies and fabricate ahaadeeth as if the Prophet (peace
and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said them. The Prophet (peace and
blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Telling lies about me is not like
telling lies about anyone else. Whoever tells a lie about me deliberately,
let him take his place in Hell.” Narrated by al-Bukhaari (1291) and Muslim
(4). 

And Allaah knows best.