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Offering condolences to the family of a sinner

Question: 12530

Sometimes a person dies by committing suicide; or a person drinks intoxicants in such great amounts that this leads to death; or a person is attacked to put an end to his evil. Is it permissible to console the mother or other relatives of a person who dies in one of these ways? I am very confused about this matter. Should I go (and offer condolences) or not?

Praise be to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon the Messenger of Allah and his family.

There is nothing wrong with offering condolences, in fact it is mustahabb,
even if the person who died was a sinner who committed suicide etc.,
just as it is mustahabb to offer condolences to the family of a person
who was killed in retaliation (qasaas, i.e., a sentence passed in a
sharee’ah court allowing the family of the murder victim to execute
the murderer) or as a hadd punishment, such as a married adulterer,
or the family of a person who drank himself to death. There is nothing
to stop us offering condolences to their families, or making du’aa’
for them and other sinners and asking for forgiveness and mercy for
them. They should be washed and prayed for, but not by prominent figures
in the Muslim community such as the ruler or qaadi etc. Rather some
of the people should pray for them in order to deter others from committing
the evil deeds that they did. As for one who dies because of the aggression
of another, he has been killed unlawfully, so the funeral prayer should
be offered for him and du’aa’ should be made for him, if he was Muslim.
The same applies in the case of one who is killed in retaliation (qasaas),
as stated above, the funeral prayer should be offered for him and du’aa’
should be made for him, and condolences should be offered to his family,
if he was Muslim and there is no reason to assume that he was an apostate.
And Allaah is the Source of strength.

Source

Kitaab Majmoo’ Fataawa wa Maqaalaat Mutanawwi’ah li Samaahat al-Shaykh ‘Abd al-‘Azeez ibn ‘Abd-Allaah ibn Baaz (may Allaah have mercy on him), vol. 13, p. 374

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